To hatch a crow, a black rainbow
Bent in emptiness
over emptiness
But flying
Ted Hughes
To be honest I’ve been in a dark mood lately. I was thinking about starting with a quote and what is above is the first thing that came into my mind, and since I’m being honest here these are the sort of posts I really hate to read, so I’ll understand if you choose to avoid this post too. Just go and make a cup of tea or something…
For the record I really love the creative posts on WordPress, whether it is poetry, fiction, art, photography, satire, etc. I’m not as interested in reading people’s thoughts, opinions, or reflections. I mean it’s okay if I agree with it, but what if I don’t? What if I find it too simplistic, or flawed, objectionable, or full of conjecture? I tend not to argue with people I disagree with online, instead I just try to ignore it and not let it get to me. Arguing online is a huge waste of time. It doesn’t change anything. Both sides will still believe what they want to believe, but they will now be angry with each other. Facts will always be ignored if they contradict people’s belief systems or tribal affiliations, that’s how people work. Also we live in very polarising times, which makes it harder to have any sort of reasoned political debate.
Anyway to get back on topic… My birthday was a couple of days ago now. On the eve of my birthday I managed to put my lower back out, which is not unusual for me, though the timing really sucked. The next day I had a booking at a restaurant in the evening where I was going to meet a few friends. When I woke up on my birthday, I found my back felt a lot better and I was able to move freely. Hooray! I thought. Then one of my friends messaged me. He had noticed the restaurant was now closed for a private function in the evening. I messaged the restaurant and eventually they got back to tell me that they hadn’t realised the restaurant had already been booked out for a private function that evening when I had made my booking. Okay, I can forgive that mistake, but they made no attempt to tell me. If my friend hadn’t noticed it, we would have turned up to find the place unavailable, despite the booking. Later that afternoon my back then seized up again and I spent the rest of the day in a lot of pain. Maybe having to cancel the dinner was a good thing, because there was no way I would have been able to attend it anyway, as it turned out. Later in the evening a friend came round with goodies and we watched episodes of The Mandalorian while eating Thai food. I also ended up drinking some of my flatmate’s Jack Daniels as I was out of painkillers. At least that part of the day was enjoyable. I couldn’t say I was surprised by the turn of events as this sort of crap seems to happen quite regularly in my life, in fact these days I almost expect things to go wrong…
Since my birthday I’ve spent the last couple of days in a lot of pain, though my back does appear to be getting better slowly. All that said, I have been in a dark mood due to this (though I was in this dark mood in the week prior to my birthday as well). I have had lower back problems since I was 18. Constant back pain just wears you down in the end, at least that’s what I’ve found. At times, I have thought about ending my life just so the pain will definitively come to an end. The one thing that has kept me alive on this planet is hope. Hope that tomorrow will be a good day. Hope that things will be better in the future. If I ever lose this hope, I’m not sure what will happen.
Anyway, here are some funny memes:
Take care everyone. Kia kaha.
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©2020 Joanne Fisher
I hope your back recovers soon. As someone who basically lives in the dark, I can commiserate… But, as it said on the ring, “This too shall pass”…
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Happy birthday!!!🎂🎈🎂🎉
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Thank you ♥️
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I hope you feel better soon. Hope seems difficult to hold on to. But this too shall pass. I loved those memes at the end. Thanks for making me laugh. I needed it
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Happy birthday little kiwi!
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You’re welcome. Sorry you didn’t have a better day 💚
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Love the elephant joke. I love elephant jokes.
Happy belated birthday, though it wasn’t was it. I’ve given up having them. I celebrate another year survived. These days that’s an accomplishment
And I suspect you’ve tried everything for your back so I shan’t offer advice. Except to say I’ve found Deep Freeze (drug-free menthol & something gel) to be effective.
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I hope you feel better soon! It sounds like a chronic condition, so I’m guessing it comes and goes, but may at least the next “off” session be long and fruitful.
And Happy Birthday!
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Thanks 🙂
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Happy belated birthday Joanne! hope you had a fantabulous day. 🙂
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A very Happy (belated) Birthday, Joanne! And, I sincerely hope you’re feeling better. Blessings, my friend.
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Thanks 🙂
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A very sincere pleasure, Joanne!
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Happy birthday!
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The memes were awesome (just like you. 🙂 ). Hang in there and hope you feel better soon.
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Happy Birthday Jedi Girl – Hope you are feeling better -keep on posting
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Sorry. Missed your birthday. Belated happy birthday. May you achieve all the success you deserve. God bless.
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